What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part one

What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part one

The mental maturity of the first part, which we want to address in several parts.

Traveling from rawness to psychological maturity

Undoubtedly, a person’s way of thinking and communication shows how close she is to maturity.

Because it shows a different behavior compared to childhood.

A human baby depends on its caregivers for survival and does not recognize a boundary between itself and its parents.

Therefore, the child naturally has few abilities until the early teenage years.

And she even gets her identity and sometimes her self-concept from her parents.

But gradually, with the acquisition of skills and independence training, and due to the responsibilities that are given to her, she becomes more active and sociable.

In other words, immature people depend on others;

They have kept the dependence and feeling of insecurity that they had in their childhood.

An adult person has relative security and giving power.

It means that a person independently or responsibly creates security for herself and others and manages the situation well during life crises.

Not that she doesn’t handle her responsibilities like a child and asks others for security.

Consider a man whose wife has just given birth.

In addition to nursing and providing peace, he helps his wife more than before in household affairs and taking care of their baby.

This person is an adult and security person;

Not like a person who takes away the security of others by creating tension and increasing the challenge in critical situations.

Also, a mature person considers her personal growth and the person she is responsible for.

Like a person who continues to study or pursue a job and a goal, he finds these facilities useful for his wife as well.

Also, a person who has mental maturity has the ability to create a balance between the world of celibacy and the world of marriage and commitment.

Undoubtedly, her priority is family.

For example, in entertainment programs or social communication, he considers his wife and children, and then his friends and family, respectively.

She knows the boundaries, she respects the psychological and physical distances or the privacy of those around her.

She does not think of entering other people’s territory and never wants to control others.

Like a person who checks his friend’s or wife’s devices and phones without permission or wanders into other people’s lives.

In general, each person should be able to have specific limits and demarcations for herself.

She should not open her boundaries so much that she allows disrespect and abuse to others;

Or she should not keep her boundaries so closed to anyone that she does not allow anyone to be intimate and causes extreme mistrust.

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