What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part three

What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part three

Mental maturity of the third part, which we want to address in several parts.

Continuing to travel from rawness to psychological maturity

For example, if someone has been unfair to a minor once,

She considers her to be a bad person.

But a person with intellectual maturity does not attribute just one attribute of a person to her whole personality.

Because she has the ability to evaluate the reality flexibly and according to the reality and the present time, she can create a logical balance between emotion and logic.

Such a person makes the right decisions based on her self-confidence and capabilities.

She has critical and creative thinking and not extreme judgmental thinking.

Immature people do not tolerate accepting criticism;

And they show a lot of resistance against not changing their inner realities.

People who have not reached intellectual maturity, or show complex behavior that is caused by their hasty judgment and perception;

Or they treat it very simplistically, which is caused by their superficial thinking.

Emotional maturity is reaching brain development;

that a person can not only identify his feelings and emotions at any time,

Rather, she is aware of their occurrence and why and puts them under her control.

She is also able to understand the feelings and emotions of others.

For example, a mature person knows what things may upset or anger her;

Or she understands her own and other people’s feelings in good and bad situations and has the ability to empathize.

An immature person, when his wife is angry, instead of understanding and empathizing, he also gets angry;

Because she allows other people’s feelings to spread to her.

Usually, the anger of immature people has a vindictive form, and for this reason, they are not able to use the defense tools of forgiveness and forgiveness.

These people have trouble showing their emotions.

In fact, emotional maturity means managing emotions;

To make wiser decisions in the important times of your life and don’t let your emotions get the better of you.

Studies have shown that this emotional maturity or ability (emotional intelligence) is one of the determining factors for success in a person’s social and common life.

An immature person cannot tolerate failure.

She expresses this feeling immediately and becomes unmotivated and depressed;

While failure is inevitable.

They can’t even achieve a true self-image and usually either have a self-image full of narcissism or an image of a worthless and rejected person.