What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part II

What is mental maturity and how does it occur? Part II

Mental maturity of the second part, which we want to discuss in several parts.

Continuing to travel from rawness to psychological maturity

[An adult person has relative security and giving power;

It means that a person independently or responsibly creates security for herself and others.

And during life crises, she manages the situation well.

Not that she does not cope with her responsibilities like a child and asks for security from others.]

Therefore, social maturity means that each person has achieved identity and independence, self-sufficiency, demarcation and rule-of-law, adherence to her socially defined responsibilities and obligations to an appropriate extent.

A mature person lives with a specific rhythm and adherence to principles;

If the rhythm of her life is inefficient, she changes it and is never afraid of change.

The fear of being rejected and judged or the fear of failing and making mistakes is very little in an adult.

The mature person has internalized realistic principles and frameworks.

But the immature person, because she basically has no principles and goals, does not harmonize with the social system;

She does not have the ability to control her emotions and impulses and demands anything that gives her immediate pleasure, like a child, regardless of the consequences.

An immature person can have extreme attachments to anything.

They don’t even have order and continuity in doing their work and responsibilities;

And they get tired and run away from repetitive daily activities and responsibilities such as cleaning and preparing food or even their job duties.

In fact, they have a constant instability in their lives.

Some of these people are more financially dependent on their families.

A person who has reached economic maturity,

It also has income experience and independence in spending its income;

so that she can implement her economic plans;

and try to reduce her financial dependence on her family and have an economic plan for her future.

[A person who has not reached mental maturity does not consider the purpose of sharing the thoughts and feelings of others in communicating and talking with others.

Rather, she communicates more to play and release the tension arising from her internal conflicts.]

Intellectual maturity means reaching the thinking and understanding of the world in a complex and visual way including a range of different colors.

Intellectual maturity means not having black or white and absolute thinking.

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